To grow deeper in love, you really need to understand what every man wants in a woman.
From my perspective, there are a great number of things men are actually looking for in a relationship.
These things they’re likely not to tell you but trust me they form a major part of what makes a man adore a woman.
If you really don’t want to push your head against the wall and complain that all men are the same and your relationship isn’t working. Then you have to learn what exactly do guys look for in a woman they want to marry or date?
What a man wants in a woman he wants to marry or date might vary, depending on the man and his significant other. You will on this post be guided on the major/exact things every man wants in a woman.
Maybe you simply do not understand why men are attracted to some women than others, does it really mean that you’re not good enough for him if he’s seen admiring other celebrity women?
Understanding men seem a mystery to women just as women are to men, but what exactly does a man want from a woman? I have been asked such questions uncountably and every time I come online or read some magazines. I do come across articles from different relationship geeks trying to explain the actual things every man wants from a woman.
Funny enough, most of the things every man wants in a woman are those which most women sweep under the carpet without knowing how harmful it could turn out to be in the long run.
1. He wants you to be attractive
No matter what could be said in praise of appearing the way you like especially when you have the “I already have him” mindset, the honest truth is that men are easily attracted to good looking women.
Looking attractive and being attracted to good looking women is a part of men’s lives and what every man wants in a woman physically. But this does not tell the whole picture.
To look attractive to your man doesn’t necessarily entail wearing flowers all the time and spending a lot of money to buy and wear sexy dresses. It virtually involves finding out the best attractive version of yourself and making everything interesting. To start with, nice smell, clean dress, and a smiling face.
You’re already attractive, if you don’t know this earlier, now you really have found out I said so. Don’t let it be hidden, men want women to show them how attractive they’re, there’s no need trying to mimic the popular TV singers or gorgeous ladies you see on the magazines. They’re for marketing purposes and have undergone a lot of professional photo editing.
This is so because men have a preference, and it depends on what a man wants from a woman and what is the man’s definition of attractiveness.
If you actually want to be attractive to him, you simply have not to feel down about yourself. Don’t be surprised that the belly you’re trying to reduce might be the thing he finds most attractive in you
It works like a charm to value your feelings, keep aside the magazines that make you think your shape irritates, eat good food that will help you be in shape, and always remember to put on some sexy wears especially at night. If your wears always give him the WOW feelings, you’re probably making sure he’s so attracted to you.
2. He wants a woman that listens
What guys want in a woman to create a great bond, is the ability to listen. This does not mean you should trade you being a good listener for not expressing yourself.
Every man wants a woman who he can be free with, they’re men, they’re humans just like you’re. They have a bunch of things bothering them, unfortunately, most men are not good at saying out loud what’s going wrong. But trust me, if he is free with you, he will share his problems with you in full.
When a man tells you what’s bothering him, it is not a sign that he’s weak or trying to shift responsibilities to you. But because you understand him, you listen to him and can help suggest what to do to sort out things.
By being a good woman who listens, his problems when shared are half-way or completely solved. He’s feeling relieved and can’t love you less, the bond will definitely become more concrete.
A wise woman will focus on creating a deep connection with her man, not until this is achieved, the relationship will have some secrets to keep. In most cases, before a man bond with you, he just wants to be sure you listen to him and what he cares about in life. Remember it’s a man you want and not some random boys.
This will by far draw him close to you, for he’s seeing the actualization of his real self around you.
He will be free to tell you his problems because of your good listening ears, from there you will be able to determine what he wants from you and what he truly doesn’t want in the relationship.
3. A woman with common goal
It is not just a common stereotype that people who share common goals are great achievers.
The truth is that getting into a relationship with someone who has the same or similar ambitions with you, begets the longest lasting and passionate relationship.
I’m not trying to say that for you to have a long-lasting and passionate relationship that your goals and that of your significant other must be the same.
You both can pursue your separate goals, hence you’re supporting each other’s dream, then there’s an alignment in goals for the both of you.
It is difficult for some women to understand what a man’s future plans are, they practically believe in the now (THINGS THEY” RE SEEING) as many other things appear to be abstract to them. They tend to have issues believing that certain things will actually pay off in the end, not most women would want to wait.
That’s probably why most people would say, “don’t bother telling a woman about your work, plans for the future and goals as she may not understand it”.
As this might be some sort of truth, it does not tell the whole picture because a woman can help mold your thoughts and definitely lead you to success.
No matter how complex a man’s goals are, the honest truth is that he will appreciate any woman who understands and supports him to actualize his dreams.
Even if you don’t have goals that tally with his, there’s a need to just understand what his goals are all about and why it is necessary to make suggestions to him and render your supports as much as you can whenever it is needed.
Nothing trips a man like an ambitious woman who has her own goals and also supports his.
4. He wants a woman who is not totally dependent on him
I keep mentioning this every time I try to address women about men and their love life.
What do you have for yourself as a woman, are you waiting for a man to do possibly everything for you? It is laughable.
I also understand that not all men would want you to be independent of the whole. They would expect you to come to them asking for something even when it’s obvious you can afford it. It sends a lovely message across to them, that you know they exist and you depend on them for certain things.
In as much as it is important for a woman who’s in a relationship to have goals for her self, being too independent might threaten your man.
He wants you to have your own goal set, nurse it to grow, and then become supportive to him.
This is a major way to create balance in the relationship so it doesn’t slide. It is more standard when the relationship shares the responsibilities and this is actually what every man wants.
5. He wants a woman that fits in with him
Up till now just as women are a mystery to men, so are men to women.
Most women are lost in finding what he wants, studying a man, and knowing what he wants is very crucial.
He wants a woman that he’s compatible with, this is a pure indication that men want women that it feels easy to be with and does not cause any brain strain trying to stay with her now and thereafter.
When you’re easy to be with and your man confirms it, then you both are compatible. It is a nice match.
However, it is possible that people fall in love with someone who is not compatible with them, it is never the worst thing that happens in a relationship. As much as men want someone that is compatible with them, it is something crucial to discuss and be aware of things that make them incompatible partners.
To be bothered about being in a compatible relationship, should be determined on the following basis, is it a man you just want to have a good time with, or is he someone you want to build a future with?
If you crave for a long life relationship that involves building the future together with him, then you would better start tolerating each other (be compatible).
6. He wants a woman who communicates easily
To so many people, communication is not their specialty. They need to be guided, men want the woman to be able to speak out. Not every man can afford what it takes to navigate through a woman’s feelings in order to interpret what she wants.
Men are logical, this doesn’t append them to knowing everything a woman wants from a man without speaking it to their hearing, he wants a woman who can clearly communicate him.
When you know your man, you will definitely have your way of communicating with him effectively to ensure he’s not left behind knowing what you needed to be done or what he’s expecting from you as his girlfriend or wife.
He wants to be communicated often, even when it is something you have discussed in the morning with him to get in the evening. Sending a text message to him or calling to remind him of it is much appreciated beyond your imaginations. Trust me this works for most men in a relationship, there are a variety of ways partners can communicate with each other and foster the connection between them. Do not be blunt about taking advantage of such mediums.
What Every Man Wants In A Woman FAQs
What does a man want most in a woman?
Emotional stability and maturity are frequently cited as one of the most desirable qualities in a possible partner by both men and women. When it comes to a potential marriage, men frequently fall victim to the cliché of valuing physical beauty. Instead, they seek a woman who is grounded and secure in herself.
What makes a man adore a woman?
We can conclude a man is profoundly in love with a lady if he has passed the initial stages of attraction and has been attached to her. Physical attractiveness, empathy, sexual compatibility, and emotional connection are all important factors in a man’s decision to fall in love with a woman.
How a man falls in love?
The behavior of a man who is falling in love is quite obvious. He’ll almost certainly make room in his life for you and want to spend a lot of time with you. When a man is in love, he will involve you in his plans. His disposition may appear to be happier in general, as if he is walking on clouds.
What makes a man want to marry you?
Loving someone and feeling safe and fulfilled in their company can be a sign that a committed relationship, such as marriage, is on the horizon.