Have you ever heard of the popular saying, “we are like oil and vinegar, great individually but we don’t mix”…. Yeah, that is how compatibility tends to play out. Most times it’s not all about love or like we’d often say “butterflies”, how compatible are you with your partner? Basically, compatibility deals with how you can “co-exist” or live peacefully with someone. Although, we are nothing but human right, so yeah disagreements can occur sometimes. But when we are dealing with compatibility, it is deeper than just loving someone. It deals with understanding someone’s emotions, attitude and his or her personality in general.


Compatibility doesn’t just have to deal with romantic relationships but all relationships in general. When you are looking for a partner, you generally have a set of characteristics that you’d love to see in this person or even a friend. However, we tend to develop a habit of looking for the same kind of person in other people. And the type of person we might be looking for is not actually what we might be or should be looking for. So how do you know the type of person? How do you know if you are compatible with someone?


This simple compatibility test will help you know, how or if at all you are compatible with someone.

#1. Are there children in your future?

A. Definitely or I have kids and I definitely want more.
B. At some point, I would like to have children, but I am not ready just yet
C. I am not sure yet, I haven’t decided
D. I don’t think I want children or I already have a child/children, and that is enough.

#2. Which of these is most important to you when it comes to relationships?

A. A sense of security and an intimate connection
B. Someone who will be by your side no matter what that you can always depend on
C. Trust, stability, and consistency
D. Being able to let loose and always have fun together

#3. Which of these best describes you?

A. A hopeless romantic
B. Compassionate and empathetic
C. Successful and confident
D. Innovative and Curious

#4. Which of these would you most desire in a partner?

A. Unconditional love
B. Someone with more of a sensitive side
C. Honesty and trust
D. Adventurous

#5. Which of these would be most frustrating to you?

A. Sending mixed messages/words not matching actions
B. Someone who can’t connect on an emotional level
C. Someone who doesn’t like to take risks or have a sense of adventure
D. Someone who lacks the motivation to accomplish their goals

#6. Which of these have caused the most significant issues in your past relationships?

A. Intimacy
B. lack of dependability and feeling supported
C. Trust and stability issues
D. Not being interested in the same things

#7. When you picture your future, what does your love life look like?

A. Settling down with my soulmate as soon as possible and creating a beautiful life together
B. Taking things slow and waiting until I am sure I have met the right one before settling down, so I don’t make any mistakes
C. I am in no rush to settle down, but I do picture myself getting married someday
D. I am not sure if I will ever settle down

#8. What month were you born in?

A. April, August, December
B. March, July, November
C. January, May, September
D. February, June, October

#9. What qualities are least attractive to you in a partner?

A. Someone who lacks motivation or ambition
B. Someone who is disconnected from their emotions or other people’s emotions
C. Someone who sends mixed signals and is not dependable
D. Someone who takes life too seriously and doesn’t know how to relax

#10. Which weekend activity sounds most enjoyable to you?

A. Getting together with family and/or friends for a night of laughter and fun
B. Date night with my partner cuddled up watching a movie
C. Doing something creative or working on a project around the house
D. Traveling or exploring
Compatibility is all about being on the same page with your partner.


#1. Fire signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius):

Like the popular yin and yang, the fire sign is a yang energy just like the air sign. Generally, the fire energy is dynamic, active, and passionate. When we are referring to these people, we are impulsive, and temperamental people.

Fire signs in love:

When fire signs are in a relationship, they are passionate lovers and will go after the object of their affection with intensity and power. But a flame that burns twice as bright burns half as long, and this couldn’t be more true for fire signs. Basically, they have to find who can keep them entertained and sustain their passion. Generally, it’s important for fire signs to take their time in love so they don’t burn out.

#2. Earth signs (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn):

Generally, earth signs give off a feminine yin energy which is a direct opposite of air signs and the fire signs. They are quite, materialistic, physical, and tangible. Basically, they can get really uptight and they are the most grounded of all the zodiac signs.

Earth signs in love:

Earth signs are very codependent lovers, and their attraction is driven by their senses. When it comes to dating, they want physical attraction, as well as shared values.

#3. Air signs (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius):

Although, the fire signs also belong the yang energy. But they are pretty physical and active. But air signs are mental, cerebral, and communicative. Basically, it’s a different manifestation of that yang energy.

Air in love:

Because these signs are very communicative, they thrive more in a pretty stimulating conversation. They also don’t like to be rushed into decisions and take a free-spirited approach to relationships.

#4. Water signs (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces):

Generally, water signs are known for being emotional and attached. Basically, these people are super sensitive and quite mysterious. They can be really deep, intense and intuitive people. Basically, they can be really “homey” nd family-oriented.
Water in love:
As you might have guessed, water signs are “really not very good at casual dating because they fall in love quickly.”


Although, there are some very rare cases where some opposite signs are compatible. However it is highly unlikely. How compatible are you with you partner? This will make it a little easier for you;

#1. LEO:

Generally, the most compatible signs for the Leo, both in friendships and romantic relationships are fellow fire signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius). Because they can match their passion, heat and energy. However, air signs are also compatible with the leo because they have similarities with them. The air sign is dynamic, and have a fast-paced energy which can work well for a Leo.

#2. LIBRA:

The signs most compatible with Libra are fellow air signs Gemini and Aquarius. Because these signs understand the dynamic nature and diversity of the Libra. However, they can also work well with fire signs; Leo and Sagittarius.

#3. ARIES:

When trying to pick a compatible partner as an Aries, the first choice is fellow fire signs. But Gemini’s and Aquarius’ would work just as well. When trying to impress an Aries, let them take the lead on setting your plans together. Because they love being in charge.


Generally, the signs most compatible with Capricorn are fellow earth signs Taurus and Virgo, and water signs Scorpio and Pisces. When you want to impress a Capricorn, show off your sensible and emotional side.


As a cancer signs, the most compatible with your energy are fellow water signs Scorpio and Pisces, but earth signs Taurus and Virgo can also work. Basically, cancers love to be comfortable and appreciate privacy. When you’re looking to impress one, plan your dates in cozy, intimate spaces that aren’t too loud or hectic.


Generally, the signs that are more compatible with Pisces are fellow water signs. But earth signs Taurus and Capricorn would also be a good match. When you want to impress a Pisces, lean into your artsy and creative side.


Generally, the signs most compatible with Gemini are Libra and Aquarius, as well as Aries’ and Leos. When trying to impress a Gemini, pick a date location that’s conducive to having long conversations. Basically they are turned on by sophistication and intelligence.


Basically, the signs most compatible with Scorpio are also water signs. However, the earth signs, Virgo and Capricorn would also work. When you want to impress a Scorpio, be authentic, they don’t like showoffs and posing.


When trying to pick a compatible partner as an Aquarius, the first choice should be the Gemini and Libra. Additionally, some fire signs like Aries and Sagittarius can also work. When trying to impress an Aquarius, show off something unique about yourself.

#10. TAURUS:

The signs most compatible with Taurus are Virgo and Capricorn, as well as water signs Cancer and Pisces. Remember, Taurus energy loves to indulge in the finer things in life so they love pampering. When trying to impress a Taurus, it’s all about going going big.


Generally, the signs most compatible with Sagittarius are other fire signs. In addition, the Libra and Aquarius is also compatible. When trying to impress a Sagittarius, do something that expands their horizons. Basically, they seek truth and knowledge in their relationships.

#12. VIRGO:

The signs most compatible with Virgo are also earth signs as well as the water signs, Cancer and Scorpio. Basically, manners and etiquette is really important to a Virgo. Put that in mind when trying to woo them.


How do you know when you’re compatibility with someone? Other than just the personality of the person, zodiac signs can also work. Basically, yin/ feminine sign or energy are compatible together, that is why water and earth signs are compatible both in friendships and romantic relationships. Additionally, the yang/ masculine sign or energy are compatible together, that is why air and fire signs are compatible both in friendships and romantic relationships.


Who is the most compatible sign for a Leo?

The most compatible signs for Leo are fellow yang energy. Which comprises the fire signs and air signs.

What is compatibility?

Compatibility is simply coexistence, how you live with someone with a balance in your personalities.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

You May Also Like